Sometimes I have moments when I have no idea what to wear. Last weekend my partner’s dad got married, and all he told me was “wear something you’d wear
to church.” If you saw the 21st century church ladies post, then you know that left me with a wide range of possibilities. The wedding began at 5pm, so
technically that could be evening wear, but knowing what I know about my partner’s family, I didn’t think this would be a formal event.Therein lies the dilemma: how dressy is too dressy? How casual is too casual? I put together a last minute outfit that I think came together pretty well. I opted for a wool skirt and sweater tights, because it was cold and snowing. I didn’t want to be too drab in my color choices, so I paired the skirt with a light blue top, ruffly top (y’all know how much I love ruffles) and a brown jacket. When I finished dressing, I felt something was missing. I ran back up the stairs to my closet and pulled out a cummerbund. NICE! I like this. But then I looked at my shoes. Nope. I was wearing these yellow and tan shoes I found during a thrifting trip in ATL. Not gonna work. I switched into the best booties ever. Love the final product, because it has a little pop of color and formal wear.
When you’re unsure about what to wear, don’t fret. Go to your closet and find pieces that make you feel comfortable and well put together. At the end of the day, even if you’re “too dressy” or “not dressy enough,” as long as you look and feel confident in your clothes, no one will care.
-Reese
February 20, 2013 at 12:35 PM
Cool. My husband and I are going to start styling folks in vintage for engagement shoots and weddings … checkout our site for more details http://ccvatlresale.com.
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February 20, 2013 at 3:51 PM
very cool. I’m going to check it out. Do you also do photog or will you just do the styling?
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February 20, 2013 at 3:47 PM
I thought you brought it together quite nicely!!!!
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February 20, 2013 at 3:50 PM
thank you Tosha!
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February 20, 2013 at 8:00 PM
Cute outfit! Very well put together
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February 20, 2013 at 8:01 PM
Thanks diva!
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February 21, 2013 at 4:10 AM
Gorgeous as always. I’m headed to Indy for the funeral of a friend’s mom. She was a beautiful spirit, active politically and engaged in social justice in her community. Stylish and fierce, inside and out. I’m going to channel your advice and try to select an outfit that allows me to honor her and stay warm.
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February 21, 2013 at 5:54 PM
Ricks just made a comment about not wanting to wear black to funerals anymore. I know you’ll pick out something that reflects her vibrancy. Holla at us if you need a pair of eyes (or two).
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